Femininity In Sports

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Winners are associated with dominant traits. They are strong, assertive, and authoritative. The traits of a winner are often associated with dominance, which is traditionally associated with masculinity. This association makes it socially acceptable for men to be victorious, to be ruthless and determined. For females, winning is not as simple as it is for men. Society does not usually make the correlation between femininity, and “winning” traits. To be a female in a male dominated society means playing by male rules. Female athletes specifically, are questioned on their ability to thrive in sports, and have been conditioned to play by a certain “femininity game”. Mariah Burton Nelson’s essay, “I Won. I’m Sorry.” argues that female athletes …show more content…
She defines femininity as it is viewed in a patriarchal society, which will resonate with her audience as she assumes they are open to recognizing a sexist society. Using logic, she states that femininity is unhealthy. Nelson does this by informing the reader of the converse of her claim. She writes, “it would be unhealthy for men to act passive, dainty, obsessed with their physical appearance, and dedicated to bolstering the sense of superiority in the other gender, so it's unhealthy for women too” (526). Applying the unhealthiness of femininity to the gender who does not suffer these damages gives her listeners perspective, helping them understand her …show more content…
One examples involves figure skating as an epitome of the femininity game. Nelson calls figure skating a “girl thing,” she says that with this sport, prettiness is mandatory. She states that figure skaters “camouflage their competitiveness with with niceness and prettiness until it no longer seems male or aggressive or unseamly” (529). Anyone who has watched figure skating, would think back and try to apply Nelson’s analysis to this sport. Here, Nelson’s argument makes logical sense with this example. Smiling, and giving a pretty appearance is part of figure skating, it is essential to how figure skaters are ranked. The reader would remember the characteristics of the femininity game, and will see how it relates to this particular example. Her moderately sarcastic tone also helps enhance her point. She tells the reader, “in women’s figure skating, smiling is part of “artistic expression” (529). This statement implies that “artistic expression” is an excuse to judge figure skaters on their appearance rather than their technique, thus the reader will be able to relate this to Nelson’s