Comparing Erikson's Stages Of Development

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As a child the people who raised me when I was an infant were my aunt and my mother. My mother was single, and came from Mexico to the U.S, when she got here; my aunt helped her by giving her shelter in her home. I did not have a father figure until the age of five, which was difficult for me to grasp the idea of having a father since I had adapted to only having a mother. My mother was mostly working to obtain the essentials I needed as an infant and while she was at work my aunt took care of me. So after interviewing them both I compared my life so far with the stages of development the Erikson came up with. Since I am 20 years old, the stages I have gone through and still going through is: Trust vs. Mistrust, Autonomy vs. Shame and doubt, …show more content…
Mistrust and during this stage of life, my mother commented the following “ while you were crying either me or your aunt rushed over to tend to you and make sure that you weren’t hungry or needed a diaper change.” This is a sign that I had trust in my caregiver as an infant, however, my aunt added to the comment my mother made “there were also times when I had to tell your mother that it was best for you to cry and get over your grumpiness.” This was a sign of mistrust, but in the end they always made sure I was content. As I explained the significance of Trust vs. Mistrust, they exclaimed that no matter what when they held me it was as if I felt safe with them. As I grew up both my aunt and mother said “you were being to seek us for anything you wanted if you didn’t see us then you did not want it from anyone else, you knew that we were the only ones who you cooperated with.” While analyzing what my aunt and mother said I compared it to the Trust vs. Mistrust stage of development and I find that I am trusting with people. Many of my friends come to me to tell me something they regret and want advice, yet there are also times when I loan people money and don’t think much about it. I tell them don’t worry pay me back when you can; I am now the type of person that would trust a total stranger. Although hearing that at times I cried and they let me cry I think that it was not bad because either way I ended up not being phased by