Carol Dweck talks about in chapter eight, is that when your child comes home a boasts about how smart they are you turn it around on them. If the child says that their school work is easy, say that you wish they would work on something harder so that they learn more. At dinner, instead of talking about your successes that day, talk about the things you got wrong but also what you learned from it. Don’t put so much attention on getting things right all the time, but on how there is always something to learn from any mistake or difficulty. Another strategy that I really learned from is that too much effort is also a bad thing. If all you do is force yourself, your child, or anyone to do nothing but put more and more effort into something can be damaging. If you make a child practice piano day in and day out to get better can actually have the opposite effect. The child may end up hating the piano, or becoming so stressed that it damages her mind and body. It’s important to know that yes it is important to put effort into everything you do, but it’s also okay to just take a step back and breathe.
Overall, Mindset by Carol S. Dweck is an amazing book that has taught me a lot. Not only how to look at myself and my own mindset, but also how I can help my sisters and my future students. It’s important to know that most hurdles in life can be overcome with effort and having the right outlook on the