Society sends conflicting messages to both men and women through media nowadays, where men are supposed to be this aggressor to attract females and women are supposed to except being a sexual object for male attention. Many “nice guys” wanna fulfill this idea therefore they stoop down to “assholes”. Serano uses a personal story about a friend Eric who was a “nice guy” for most of his life until his twenties when he decided that in order to attract women he had to become a sexual aggressor. As long as these demands to fulfill the predator/prey mindset continue “ a large percentage of people will continue to gravitate toward them” (Serano