Parents often worry about their children. Parents fight, struggle and strive for their children. In the story Fujiko demonstrates her parent-like attitude and her desire to help her daughter. The story Snow Falling On Cedars expresses that parents often exaggerate and go overboard a bit. Their yearning to help, can hinder their children's ability to take on responsibilities themselves. These points illustrate the distinction between eliminating someone's issues and helping them.
Many parents bend over backwards to ensure their children's well-being. Furthermore, their intentions can cause them to go overboard. Hansue's mother is a kind, caring mother who remains involved in her daughter’s life and values her opinions. She is fair to Hansue,
