There were two that particularly caught my eye. A man named, Jim in Massachusetts could only take five days off. Unfortunately, those 5 days were unpaid. The moment he came back to work he described it as being “worked to death” and was also sleep deprived. (O’Neil, 22 Dads Explain What Paternity Leave is Really Like in America) Another one I read was a man in Texas, Chris. He is a bartender and if a bartender stops taking hours they stop scheduling hours for them to work. When his child was born he could no longer work during the weekdays and could only work the weekends. They slowly stopped putting him on the schedule and he felt like he was forced into retirement. (O’Neil, 22 Dads Explain What Paternity Leave is Really Like in