Becoming Homeless

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“You have so much to learn about this cruel, cruel world baby,” my dad says to me on the way home from practice. I know of the mishaps and crimes and tragedies that occur all around the world. I know, dad. I came to reason that these things did not concern me. If I just leave it alone someone else will take care of it. Granted, this is by no means a personal or concrete philosophy of mine, it is merely an imbedded thought that I have endorsed for a majority of my life.
During my foggy childhood my parents always thought it was best to keep me out of family dilemmas, understandably so. Why would a 6 year old me need to know that dad was going to the food bank to get his family’s dinner? I just played with my toys and watched the television
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Homeless people are homeless because they’re lazy, they don’t want to get help, they’d rather live a life of crime. It upsets me to the core that I have adopted these ideas into my brain; a conceited hollow person with no regards to my fellow man. I thought that these were ‘facts’ at a point in time. If that’s not disturbing, then I don’t know what is, and I know I’m not alone with this line of thought. Just by watching the demeanor of the people around me, the judgement is almost …show more content…
I asked my mom why we don’t give our money to the homeless, she said she doesn't trust them anymore. She stated an experience of hers, when she would gas up on her way to work, there was a homeless man that would offer to pump her gas or wash her windows, the man would act very genuine towards my mom so she would give him whatever change there was in the ashtray of the car. A week later she saw the man walking around town loaded on drugs. She felt betrayed and somewhat manipulated that this person has been taking her money and using it to destroy his body. He and alike homeless people have put this facade on of being a contributing member of society only to get what they want: money, drugs, alcohol. It is estimated that 38% of the homeless are dependent on alcohol and 26% abuse drugs. On the contrary though, there are homeless who are trying to back on their feet without the help of a shelter. I asked how to decipher these people apart (the ‘no goods’ and the ‘actually trying’) and there is no sure way to know but this does bring up another question, why are these people trying to get back on their feet, not in a shelter? Many do not trust in the system; in the case of a homeless veteran, they fight for their country only to come back to find themselves without a home, family,