Bullying Changes

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Bullying has been around forever, even before schools were made. Recently though bullying has been in the national spotlight after several serious cases where a bullied student committed an act of violence or suicide such as "Columbine". As a result schools all across the country have redefined bullying and cracked down on it to prevent any future incidents. Now schools have bullying policies that include just about anything and the mere mention of a bullying problem sends them into a panic. (Bullying). These anti-bullying campaigns have changed the way bullying is defined and thought of. Bullying is currently defined too broadly and needs to be redefined both denotatively and connotatively.
Bullying is currently defined too broadly and because
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An example of how dealing with bullying helps us develop is "No winners and no losers though mean that children receive no tangible life experience as they grow to maturity. Eventually, these young adults are exposed to a real world filled with competition where individuals win and lose every day in business, relationships, and all of life's situations" (Simplicio). This quote talks about how by taking the loss out of life in school we also hurt them going forward into the real world as bullying doesn't end after school and as said in several idioms we learn from failure. Children need to try to deal with bullying while they are young so that if they fail to deal with it now then they can learn from it and use what they learn in the future. Another example of why need bullying to help us develop is " behaviors that, however unpleasant, are in some sense normal parts of growing up and learning how to interact in the world. And this may not be in the long-term interest of either the bullies or the bullied. For the latter, zero-tolerance anti-bullying programs could leave them unprepared to assimilate the often unpleasant realities of social interaction without conceiving all hostility or peer rejection as traumatic" (Soskis). This example shows a consequence that can occur as a result of overprotecting kids from bullying in schools. The point of the example is that by taking away the opportunity to deal with something negative such as bullying, kids are set up to fail later as adults when they can't deal with it on their