Communicating Is So Important In The Grieving Process

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I personally didn’t like it when other people grieved my mother’s death. It felt like an invasion of my private space. But those feelings are natural. When someone feels that way they must understand that you have to respect those peoples grief as well.
Communication. Communicating is so important in the grieving process. Some like to just our out there souls to anyone who will listen and others avoid the subject entirely. A simple solution to the problem is to covering all your bases is opening yourself up. Gently remind the person that may be grieving that you are able and willing to talk in a hypothetical sense. This doesn’t put the burden on them and renders your self, not conceded, but slightly vulnerable. Also, if you are emotionally connected to the loss or grief try not to make the conversation to emotional. Watching other people’s apparent lack of feelings when you feel hurt or saddened can be difficult. Some people find it much easier to face their grief when not faced with yours. That is simply something you have to accept.
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In any arena where you feel strongly it can be confusing to see others deal with there emotions very differently. People are tempted to think they may be insincere or maybe they are showing off their grief. The solution: Don’t project your grief onto others.
Protecting yourself. Supporting and coping with others grief can be stressful and exhausting. Especially if you are saddened by someones passing. It is important that you create a safe place for yourself. You might end up hurting yourself in the process if you get involved, too much, into other people’s lives. When looking out for others it's important to remember that you matter as well. Try to show yourself the same kindness. Not only do you deserve but so do the