Definition Essay On Friendship

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The universal definition of friendship in today’s society is becoming confusing and unclear due to social media such as Facebook, where acquaintances are now considered friends. The Merriman Webster dictionary defines the term friend as: ‘a person who you like and enjoy being with, someone whom you care for their wellbeing.’ (Merriam Webster) A Friend does not criticize your flaws, does not leave you in a tough time, and does not make you feel like a burden. On-line friends are not equivalent to real life friends considering that the friendship is an allusion. On-line friends will not actually set aside the time to meet you in person or help you in a time of need, will leave you with a sense of loneliness, and will add you on social media only …show more content…
An anonymous blogger shared: “If I post something and no one responds, I feel sad and lonely. If I go on a friend’s page and see that they gave a rose or some other gift to a mutual friend, I wonder why I didn’t get anything.” (McGuire-Snieckus, holt) In today’s society, if we do not have someone posting on our wall or tweeting us, we feel as if we are unimportant. Statistics show that social media users are more likely to suffer from mental illnesses, such as depression or anxiety than non users. The symptoms of depression from social media, often result from being abandon, neglected or forgotten. Are people actually feeling neglected because they did not receive enough likes on their picture? The fix to the solution is to put down the smart phone and have a face to face conversation with our friends. No, not over face-time, but in person. Real life interactions are healthier for our mental well being due to the fact that we can physically witness that they are making time for us. Relationships are about the people we make time to encounter, not about the abundance of lives we keep up with over social media. Therefore; if we made time to see people the less lonely we would