Does Forgiveness Place Without Reconciliation?

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I agree with your viewpoint that there is a disconnection between the definition of forgiveness and prior research findings. However, I do think that forgiveness can take place without reconciliation because these are two separate things. For reconciliation to occur, it involves a multiple-person process which means that both individuals should be involved in trying to restore the relationship. In addition, it also means that if one person is willing to forgive but the other person is not willing, then it is not possible for reconciliation to occur. For example, I may be ready to forgive and reconcile with my partner, however, it is also possible that my partner does not desire the relationship anymore and that my partner does not want to reconcile. Moreover, it could work the opposite way as well if I didn't want to reconcile when …show more content…
Another reason why I think forgiveness can also take place without reconciliation is because forgiveness involves more internal aspect whereas reconciliation involves more external aspect. This means that forgiveness can occur privately for the individual which means involving with the individual mindset. For example, I could be experiencing forgiveness in my mind without other people knowing what is happening internally where I could feel hurt about what the other person said about me, but I would choose forgiveness over retaliation if I meet the other person again. Whereas reconciliation involves more of external aspect because it needs to occur with at least on other person and not privately. Then again, reconciliation is a complicated process, which requires more time and patience than forgiveness since it's the process that not only includes yourself but other's in the missing puzzle as