“The way we judge ourselves is the worst judge that ever existed” (19).The truth was spoken in the book “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz. Ruiz explains that everyone lives their lives day in and day out critically judging others and judging themselves much more. It ruins who people truly are and how people should act. People experience this judging because it is what everyone grew up with. It starts as a child, then goes through as a teen, and still is increasing as an adult. As a child, people expect them to be perfect or nearly close to it. Follow the rules, keep a smile on, and have no care in the world is what is truly expected. But the second they do anything wrong, they are judged. They are judged based on their behavior, and then people begin their talk. At this age this process is started by speaking to the parents, the parents then talk to the child and tell them that they need to behave themself. That’s when it kicks in that they’re not perfect. Ruiz admits, “Nobody abuses us more than we abuse ourselves…” (19). This is self-explanatory, people can be abused by everyone around them, physically, verbally, and emotionally. But when they abuse themself, they can’t stand to look into the mirror. It all starts when they begin to believe that they need to try their hardest to do what is right, and when they fail, they believe they failed themselves. That’s when they begin to judge themself, and it never dissipates. As a teen, people expect others to try their hardest at everything they do. When they admit that they actually made a mistake and did something wrong, everyone judges them. Others may be doing the same exact thing but they still will look at them and shake their heads, they don’t want anyone to know that they are the same, they want people to think that they are the outcast and they are the only ones doing wrong, the truth is, they’re not. When the judging begins, it’s not only people judging them; it’s them judging themself, telling themselves that they’re a horrible person and that they did wrong. They can never take anything back, and this feeling will keep increasing. That’s…
Types of Abuse
Physical abuse is sustained abuse where people are being punched, kicked, beaten, it is anything thing that brings physical harm to others.
Where somebody is being physically assaulted either by family, friends, carers or people they live with. The signs could be that they seem to be very withdrawn and scared to talk to people. They could have physical marks on their body, bruises, burns that they can’t or don’t want to explain to others. They…
Children have no control or help for the abuse in their families. Child abuse is the physical or emotional mistreatment or neglect of a child or children (Web). Children in emotional situation are frequently blaming themselves for their abuse in their family. The child believes that the abuse is caused by their actions. The child stay in the family and don’t leave, because they believe if they leave they will have no parent to take care of them. In the mind of the children they believe that there…
of Children and Young People
( For those working in the Adult Sector )
1.Every organisation should be committed to safegaurding children and Young people.
All staff within their organisation may in the course of their work come into contact with
children and famileies and have a responsibility to ensure that they know what to do if
they encounter child abuse or are concerned that a young perosn is at risk of harm.
All agencies working with children, young people and their families should…
People with physical disabilities, also known as physically disabled people, have a physical impairment which has a significant/ long term effect on their ability to carry out day-to-day activities . The proportion of people with disabilities globally is rising and now stands at 1 billion, accounting for 15 per cent of the world’s population, according to the first official global report on disability . Other than their individual needs, disabled people may require an accessible…
does physical abuse affect the young individual?
According to the National Child Abuse statistics, every day more than five children die daily from child abuse alone in America. Depending on the different types of abuse such as, physical abuse, emotional abuse, and sexual abuse, they all have negative effects. Out of all of these, physical abuse is the one that tends to have the most impact on a child, says Child Welfare, Physical abuse can cause…
Thesis: "Most parents and other caregivers do not intend to hurt their children, but abuse is defined by the effect on the child, not the motivation of the parents or caregiver." Child abuse is a very large problem in the world. People need to realize the types, the cause, and how to prevent child abuse.
II. What causes Child abuse
Rubin "Hurricane" Carter Case Study
- Shooting at a bar
- 2 black suspects/shooters
- 3 people killed (white)
- 2:45am on Thursday night
- 2 black people driving a white car
- Found Rubin in a white car and automatically thought it was him
- Charged in June for triple homicide
- Lafayette Bar, Paterson, NJ
- 3 people from bar took in lazaros to write
- Arby , From bar described get away vehicle
- Rubin sentenced…
November 13, 2014
The Invisible Voices
There are so many people in the world who are suffering from domestic violence, and what would be a better time to discuss this topic than during the Domestic Violence Awareness month. It is an issue that is dealt with by everyone but it doesn’t seem to be something that we will ever overcome or change completely. It is probably unrealistic to think that this problem is 100% fixable but it isn’t to think that we can…
for children and young people.
P1) There are lots of reason as to why children and young people are taken away from their families and put into care.
For example if an individual is being abused either emotionally, sexually, physically or even being neglected. Physical abuse is when someone is deliberately trying to hurt you. Examples of this could be punching or kicking. Emotional abuse if someone is always shouting at you and making you feel bad about yourself. Sexual abuse is when you are being…