Late Life Divorce

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Divorce is a mutual or involuntary separation that happens between two conjoint who used to be married and live together. Painful, it has never been an easy process as its thorns family apart and destroyed partner’s self-esteem by the inability to cope with the void left afterward. But what we used to see at an early stage into marriage starts to increase; nowadays, we see more late life divorce happening than ever. Thus throbbing, some questions have raised: how late divorce is different than early divorce? A comparison between them will show the convenient and inconvenient of being divorced at each of this stage which gender role contribute to make a net dissimilarity. As we know that man do not have the limit of age and still be able to …show more content…
Because man have less worries , barriers and judgments against them this process looks pretty natural to go from one point to another and still preserve his decency, dignity and virility. At the opposite, a woman is struggling on every step on early divorce. Fighting to keep the family together as well as herself, woman as to deal with others judgement as she has to have the ideal family as possible. But most importantly, she has to follow the societal norm and protocol. My uncle ex-wife Gina life after divorcing is not glorious and easy as his. A stay home mom, she drops her jobs when she has these children. Now as a single parent, she has to face, one, going back to work which is not easy nowadays, but second of all, she is going back to the dating life. As she has to be careful about whom she has to date because of her kids, but she also has to have the approval of her ex who won’t allow any kind of person next to their kids. But the hardest one is the child's restriction against any person who is not their dad. For this woman dating as this stage is pretty …show more content…
All over sudden he feels unhappy and wants to divorce. For him a new person in his life is what he needs. But as Rick was the one who work his all life, while getting divorced, he wants to take the two houses that they own. But the children won’t let that happen neither the law. After an ugly divorce the wife has to keep one of the houses where she lives with the kids. He was with no consideration for his wife who devotes all these years taking care of him and the children. As Erickson on his developmental theory which define as ego, id and super-ego as an individual pass through life stages, conflicts arise, resolution of conflicts or crises unresolved might come with separation. As he states: “adult , child’s experiences when his or her parents’ divorce open the door to understanding how impact on adult children continuing from no meaningful impact to severe.). (Erickson ) Although it is a late divorce that do not guaranty that family won’t be divided because of his behaviors none of the children talk to their