Mary Ainsworth Attachment Theory Analysis

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Mary Ainsworth’s Attachment theory has some revenants to my relationship with my mother. I had a secure attachments as a child, but as an adult it changed. She changed my schemas in life. My mother has impacted my life in a negative way. She has taught me that the closes people will let you down, hurt you, and be self-involved all about themselves and not care of the ramifications. She has shown me what drugs, alcohol, sex addiction, choices are made for herself. She has shown me how to get a man to provide everything for her, but never tried to improve her situation. My ex-husband, had a negative and positive influence. He taught me to be controlled, abuse and low self-worth is the best wife to have. To give up on everything and believe that nothing good will happen to me. My life was to devout very breath to his every whim, need and materialist needs. Learned more survival skills for life, as in being resourceful in getting out of the marriage, plan an escape route, save money, to be resilient, how to just be quite and not say …show more content…
I try not to let it influence my life very much. So much information is on the internet. Many believe that “if it’s on the web, then it’s true”. I don’t tweet on twitter or have many other social media accounts. I like my life less complicated. I just stick to Facebook and Skype. I don’t watch very much T.V. I don’t have the time. Books are one of my comforts. I love to indulge into a good book. It takes you to the story’s time and place, you become the character, travel around the world without leaving your house. The emotions that you read, influence how you feel and respond to them. Most times, it has closely related to what I have experienced in my life. So I cry or get mad and even try to analyze how to handle that peculiar situation better than they did. I love reading to my children when they were little. I gave them the joys of reading a book and time with