Melissa stated, “ To this day I have a fear of incorrectly setting the table” (Coleman, 139). New things are always considered a challenge because people never know how the situation might be to overcome it. Melissa approaches how hard it was for her to overcome the situation by stating “Every time I was with my friend, I would continue to make the same mistake on the correct order of linen napkins, China plates, and crystal glasses” (Coleman, 139). It was something that she never experienced doing in her house, and now that she’d do it at somebody's else's house it was an embarrassment because she would always do it