Mr Baltazar Essay

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Is Cheating Inevitable ?

For centuries human beings have claimed to be fully faithful to one person only, be it there wife/husband or there boyfriend/girlfriend, and for centuries they have lied through there teeth to them when faced with the question 'are you cheating on me ?'. A question which i've been faced with is whether or not we as humans are designed to cheat. One of the main concerns most humans face when it comes to a romantic relationship, is whether or not their partner will stay faithful to them. But we never stop to ask ourselves if we will ever be able to stay faithful to our partners, but instead shift all our focus to them, as if they are the only ones who could possibly face that temptation. Will we all cheat ?, Is it an editable act that is sure to happen just because we are designed by nature to mate with a lot of partners and produce offspring. There are two sides to this argument, like life itself, a relationship comes with a package of both good and bad things. Positive and negative go hand in hand in life and it is something we have to learn and accept as a part of our lives. Rather than fight it, we should savour both the good and bad moments and use them to help us grow wiser so we can achieve a solid honest, trustworthy and understanding relationship, with no boundaries. The truth is, we all feel attracted to several other people in our life (besides our partner), does this mean that potentially we are being unfaithful ?, no, not at all. It does however mean that when temptation does arise it is the responsibility of both partners to recognise the others temptation and deal with it in the best way possible, together as one. We are designed like animals, to reproduce. We encounter certain people that arouse our interest and we find ourselves feeling aroused and attracted to them. The way we are all naturally programmed this way means that it is inevitable that we will be drawn physically to them, so we can then mate and reproduce. We are obviously unaware of this whilst it is happening. Love, respect and discipline are the key things which actually keep people from cheating, also certain religious beliefs prevent one partner from ever straying - even in fantasies. If you are not religious, you may have certain moral standards about you (ethics), and relationships and you may just believe that commitment