On The Fear Of Death Analysis

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On the Fear of Death
In the story “On the Fear of Death,” I believe the author’s main purpose was to describe how death has evolved over time. I have seen the way things have changed throughout time and the differences between how people use to do things versus now. I do agree with her because of the way she describes different experiences about death such as the way it affects the family in different ways, how modern medicine has prolonged death, and the lack of personalization to the person who is dying. In the book, she also describes how even though we know of death and that everyone dies, we still have a hard time accepting it when it happens.
As I was reading this story, I was enthused by the psychological effects of the family members
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They do this for many reasons one being selfishness. This happens so often because we are not yet ready to tell the person we love goodbye forever. Another is we forget to ask the patient what they want instead of doing what we feel is right. For instance, the author states “when a patient is severely ill, he is often treated like a person with no right to an opinion. It is often someone else who makes a decision if and when and where a patient should be hospitalized. It would take so little to remember that the sick person too has feelings, has wishes and opinions, and has most important of all the right to be heard.” (Kubler-Ross 94) We let our selfishness interfere with the fact that the patient may want something different because we want our loved one to be healed. Because we do this we make our loved ones feel uncomfortable. An example my grandma was sick throughout my life she was always in and out of the hospital. A few weeks before she passed the doctors had described her condition and informed my family and I we did not have much time left with her they and gave us some options to try and prevent this from happening and we all knew that she would die without the procedure. Her husband was telling the doctors to do everything they can to try and help her when there was also a 50% chance she would die during the procedure because of how sick she was. He never