Subculture: Marriage and Allison Navarro Socl 102 - 1402 A- 07 Essay

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Allison Navarro
Wedding Custom
April 18, 2014
Allison Navarro
Phase III DB Prof. Rockford SansomJuly 27, 2014 Colorado Technical University
Some people believe in love at first sight, while others believe it takes time to love someone. In life having a companion is a very important factor. It's hard to form a good relationship right when you meet that person. It takes time, patience, and trust to love that person and positively is sure it will last. If a relationship goes well, it will eventually end in marriage. Some cultures in the world however don't allow their children to meet that special someone on their own
Arrange wedding a traditional in south Asian society. The way in which arranged marriages are handled determines whether or not they are cruel and old-fashioned. Islam is one of the religion that follow this believe where the father or and older family member choose for the bride and the groom. They believe that the parent know their child and they would choose a perfect match for them and this would help the marriage be successful. They say marriage comes first and love later. If the bride or the groom disagrees the wedding cannot go on. The details of the marriage are set out in a contract which is a legal document. Another group Hindus believes that a marriage is based on more than physical or emotional attraction and at one stage Hindus were strict about arranged marriages where the parent’s decision was final.
Arranged marriages are an extremely lengthy process, if looking at it with an open mind it has many respectable aspects. The process takes place like this; when the boy and girl come to the age where they both are educationally, emotionally, financially, and most important mentally ready the parents of each will go and search for their perfect match. The search begins according to what education, family background, personal values, emotional and mental level one prefers in their mate. When the match has been made, the two are given the right to meet for their satisfaction before any final decision is made. The media has change, their though and believes. They see that know day’s people don’t respect the commitment they made with the person they marriage. The partners may get tired of the relationship, which make then cheat to one another. That is the main reason people get divorced in this days.
I think this reasons affect the perception and expectation of marriages. People hardly want to get marry these times. That is why there are a lot of kids born in a family that’s not married. Individuals want to make sure when they do it is the right time to do it.
In my opinion, I respect every religion everyone have difference