The final chapter of The Daodejing of Laozi summarizes the way of the Tao. This passage demonstrates how arguing and being curious is a good thing if it is done to investigate our thoughts so we can reach a concisive conclusion. However, if it done out of spite and to create chaos then it does not lead us to discover the harmony and balance in our life. We have to be able to learn from the discussion we are having otherwise it was not an informal debate that benefited us. Furthermore, we have to be open minded in order to learn because we listen the least when we talk the loudest. Words can either better us or fail us; we have to know how to utilize them in order to benefit from them. Although learning is an excellent thing, it does not always
