The Short Story 'Two Kinds' By Amy Tan

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To Raise a Prodigy The short story Two Kinds by Amy Tan explores the many complexities of the relationships shared between immigrant parents, and their second-generation children. This very notion serves as the basis of the story’s conflict, in which Jing-mei’s mother, having abandoned her harrowing life in China for the betterment of her daughter’s future, relentlessly enforces her cultural anxieties of success upon Jing-mei. Ultimately, the unreasonable expectations that are placed on Jing-mei’s shoulders derive from her mother’s dogmatic faith in the vast opportunity provided by first-world countries - an ideology that resonates strongly with many immigrants, and even more so with my parents. In particular, my parents undoubtedly believed that simply due to my Canadian heritage, I was destined for greatness, as was …show more content…
As a result, since the age of 6, I was often subject to lectures reflecting Jing-mei’s mother’s own beliefs: “Of course you can be prodigy, too [...] You can be best at anything” (715). Additionally, the feelings of self-disappointment and inadequacy that Jing-mei often experiences are reminiscent of my own childhood, in which I was often compared to others, and forced to complete additional studies against my own will. More comparable, however, is the way in which I would react to these overbearing circumstances. Just as Jing-mei, I would often complain and wail my way out of a situation, with the intent of ultimately thwarting my parents’ ambitions. Having both been raised in an Asian household, my childhood draws many significant parallels to Jing-mei’s, with the exception of one notable difference, however. Unlike Jing-mei, I accustomed myself to my parents’ high expectations, after understanding early on the kindhearted intentions of their “ruthlessness” - they ultimately wished for my