Why would she have to be gay and not a woman to be a good role model?
because you’re gay and a man?
I don’t even seen an argument there
just a statement on his part
with no real reasoning
other than he is a typical homo who thinks he gets a different set of rules
than everyone else
he sounds like a self-important ass
I will never understand why certain gay people feel like they have a different set of rules apply to them
rules for decency, that is
some guy said something like, “monogamy is for straight people” and I just wanted to hit him
because then so is marriage, you fruit bag
Needless to say we have room to not be pc, and the commentary was funny…but the point was that my friend was totally right. Gay people expect a separate standard to be held for them in SO many ways, guess what? It’s not practical, and if you expect that, then you’re going to get just that, a special set of rules just for the gay community, biased with no equality. It’s ridiculous to even suggest that a role model would be more apropos had they matching gender and sexuality.
On a different tirade and rant, I was also speaking to someone very dear to me about reputation and character… I worked in the nightclub industry for quite a few years now, and amidst all that I was in an LTR that had many a firework… I learned that no matter how you behave or what you do, people will talk. It’s the nature of the beast and the ball game. The only thing you can really change in my opinion is how you react and carry yourself. He was kind of disappointed at my POV because he thought better of me and thought that certain rumors were baseless and I should hark out those who spread them and clarify things. I said no. Absolutely not. The people who I consider integral in my life and that I care about me know me well enough that such commentary would not phase them, nor would they ever see a single ounce of truth in that. But to play the devils advocate a bit, I agreed that I could do a bit more to to clear the pandemonium… But still I said, “really, after any serious LTR and having worked in the industry that I did, it would be outrageous if people didn’t have something to…