The movie, All About my Mother, tells the story of a mother who lost her seventeen-year-old son in a car accident. Still in grief of her loss, she goes on a quest to find the father of her son, who knew nothing about her pregnancy. Throughout the movie characters are introduced and are not who they first appear to be. The father turns out to be a transvestite named Lola and unlike in the real world this fact was not a problem. Society creates a sense of normalcy members play along to. They are all playing roles often in fear of what society would think of them. Therefore, people often stick to the gender roles they are, because going outside them creates friction which is