Born Liars- Ian Leslie Jenny Vasiloff This book provides an interesting exploration of the human mind. It explores why people lie, how they lie and the reasons why they lie. In the first few pages, it has us recognizing that we are the ones that are the truth-tellers. The liars are everyone around us. It is a known fact that everyone has told a lie, and it is even safe to say that everyone has told a lie numerous amounts of times (Leslie, 2011). Researchers see the ability to lie developing in extremely young children, beginning at the age of three! Some researches even say that children learn to start telling lies when they first start to learn a language. The reason those children lie is they want to cover up something they’ve done wrong, and to avoid getting in trouble and receiving a punishment. (Leslie, 2011) says that once children reach the age of four, they lie more convincingly and effectively. Instead of immediately confessing or saying “sorry”, the kids stick to their story and maintain a straight face throughout the lie. (Leslie, 2011) then elaborates about how a specialist uses a certain game called the peeking game. Children are tested and if they try and peek so they’ll know the right answer they are asked if they did peek. The children are recorded so it is known if they peek or do not peek. Many children peek to try and see the answer and then lie to try and cover it up. The interesting thing is, even the children that are strictly disciplined for cheating and lying still lie and they are better and more convincing at lying than most children their age. On the other hand, sometimes children get mixed messages from their parents (Leslie, 2011) The parents enforce that lying is bad but then when the child tells grandma the truth, that they didn’t like the sweater they received for Christmas, the parents are then telling the children to lie. Eventually, as they get older, the children realize there are certain places and times that are best for telling a small, little lie. It has been found that parents can prevent their children from being liars. When you know that they’ve done something wrong, it is easy to tell them that it is ok and help them fix the problem instead of making the child feel bad about them self and feel the need to lie so the parent won’t be mad. Lie detectors are commonly spoken of but little are they used to separate the liars from the truth tellers (Leslie, 2011). They science behind the lie detectors is still being understood but the main way of operation is this. It detects a raise in blood pressure, a change in breathing patterns and involuntary muscular movement. It worked for a college case where many of the girls reported stolen items and when attached to the lie detector the culprit showed an obvious spike in blood pressure and the next day, she broke down and confessed. The reason why lie detectors aren’t commonly used anymore is because they don’t work all the time. Plus, they don’t give valuable information. They can only tell sometimes that someone is lying and then again they don’t know what the truth is they just know a lie. If the person is a good liar or they refuse to tell the truth it is a virtually useless invention. It wasn’t used in Europe at all and eventually courts decided the evidence produced by the lie detector machine wasn’t accurate enough to be used in a case because it was not scientifically at the standards required. Now there is a new form of lie detecting called an fMRI (Leslie, 2011). It is basically a giant machine with a huge magnet that can measure certain parts of brain activity. It is a revolutionary tool and caused a huge breakthrough in neuroscience. Sometimes lying can be worse than ever imagined. It is common that people lie to themselves because they think what they’re doing is right and this self-deception can lead to many awful consequences. For example, suicide bombers think that they’re doing well by killing thousands of innocent…
it is just plain ridiculous.
Another pretty crazy idea brought up was that the longer someone went to college the more money they could make. Okay if someone decides to go to school or college for 10 years at the same school would make the same amount of money as a different student that went to the same exact school for 4 years and graduated. The number of years spent in college has nothing to do with how much money someone will make. Many people could go to a medical school or a vet school, and…
the lying. Yet, sometime the “white” lie is needed to protect someone.
Lying can lost the trust of your friends and family and therefore break the relationship between the stakeholders (e.g. friends, family, colleague) and you. This is because when you start telling the first lie, another lie will come consequently to cover and match with the first lie. When people realize the truth, they will not believe you anymore. The more lie you told, the more new lie come. This is the causal relationship…
~switches to train bench scene~
(preacher is sitting down next to two people discussing the bible)
Person number 1= yo I was reading the bible and I don’t know man I’m starting to think maybe God does exist.
Person number 2= don’t get sucked in by that lie, religion is fake man, it’s just a fairy tale, come on do u really think someone lives up there in the clouds? If God exist then why is the world the way it is?
Person number 1= I don’t know, it’s just that when I was reading it I felt like the words…
driving under poor conditions. At only 30 miles per hour, the total distance traveled, including recognition and stopping distance, is 224 feet. At 30 miles per hour, it takes about two seconds and 224 feet to stop. In those two seconds with that amount of stopping distance, it would not be hard to injure or kill someone.
1: Any operator of a bicycle who is under the age of 18 must wear a properly fitted and fastened helmet.
A: True. This is also true if the person is riding a skateboard…
October 8, 2014
The Old Lie
Wilfred Owen’s “Dulce et Decorum Est” and Yusef Komunyakaa’s “Facing It” are both
poems that bring to light the more negative features of war. Though “Dulce et Decorum Est”
immerses the reader into the midst of war and “Facing It” is set instead next to a war memorial,
both poems seem to convey impressions that oppose the traditional outlook that war is glorious
and heroic, and each speaker feels the critical aspects of battle…
Issue # 3: I was told that I would have to take a lie detector test because it was
company policy. I wanted a unidon representative could be present and was
told they did not have a collective agreement and were not breaking any rules.
Act: Under the Employment Standards Act Christine has the right to refuse to “(a) take a lie detector test,(b) be asked to take a lie detector test, or (c) be required to take a lie detector test. (The Employment Standards Act, 2010…
25 September 2014
I have told many lies in my lifetime, but I cannot remember a specific time that I told a
huge lie to someone in particular. One of the smaller lies that I have told was fairly recent. I had
been over at a friend’s house and we got caught up in a really good television show called
I looked at my phone to read a text message and noticed it was almost eleven, which
was when I was supposed to be home…
Social International Psychology
February 13, 2012
Lie To Me Paper
The human body functions in many ways whether voluntarily or involuntarily in order to express reactions or emotions that occur while someone acknowledges someone else. The body can change how it tenses up and relaxes anywhere but when it happens to tenses up or twitches in more visible areas such as the face or arms and hands the reactions become more noticeable to others. Facial expressions and…
Belief is a 'Lie'
Belief is a 'Lie'
“One interpretation of these data is that belief in the supernatural is hard-wired.” (Luhrmann, 2013). Are we forcing ourselves to have a belief in something beyond the faith that we have been presented with in Christianity? To think that we are “hard-wired to the supernatural” is ridiculous. We are taught at a young age to read and memorize. (Callanan, Sabbagh, 2004), (Huttenlocher, Vasilyeva…