Becoming An Immigrant

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I remember walking into the first day of freshman orientation. Seeing the huge campus, the big scary seniors and my new teachers frightened me. High school seemed to be daunting. My experience so far has been far from that. Despite many challenges, I have learned so much, made many new friends, and grown as a person throughout my High School experience. Being an immigrant, combined with the absence of my father for half the year, has forced me to encounter and take on many unique challenges. These challenges are what shaped me to become the person I am today.

As an immigrant from China, I have faced the problem of my identity. The task of balancing the two very different cultures I am surrounded by has been extremely challenging. The foods I eat, the languages I speak, and the contrasting cultural norms are very hard to balance. I didn’t know whether I should try to blend in with the rest of my peers or try to be like the rest of my family members. Everything I did seemed problematic, as if I had to choose between my family and my friends.
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My father’s job forced him to be in China for half the year. Though technology allows us to communicate, the deep conversations, the laughter, the tears, and advice given just couldn't be replaced by a facetime call. I am forever grateful for my father’s hard work and sacrifice, but going through rough times without a father’s constant support and reassurance was extremely difficult for me. Helping my mother, parenting my little sister and filling in places where he is not gives me lots of