Most Common Way People Give Up Their Power

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“The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any” (Walker). This quote means some people have a lack of self confidence. The fear to step outside of their box and try new things. When a person recognize what actions they take in life can make a difference, they gain more power. However, when a person believes what they do has little to no effect on the outcome of any situation they lose power since they do not believe in themselves or in the situation. The only person who controls your life is yourself. If you do not take ownership, and make decision about your life you will lose power. Basically, to have self-control means that we behave in a manner appropriate to the given situation. It means that we control …show more content…
Perseverance is more than endurance. It is endurance combined with absolute assurance, and certainty that what we are looking for is going to happen. Perseverance means more than just hanging on, which may be only exposing our fear of letting go and falling. Even when you know you are going to fail, you need to preserve. The most important lesson you could learn from this quote is to never bring someone else's power down. You shouldn’t put others down just because you are hurting. When you are making someone else feel bad about something, it probably makes yourself feel like you are "better" than the other person. It probably keeps you going day to day, so you won't have to confront your own shortcomings and insecurities. I think that is very sad and I would want to be able to feel that I am making a positive difference in other people's lives instead of a negative difference. In conclusion, if you give up you will have a lack of self confidence and with this you will gain no power. The problem with having power is that it is so easily corrupted. There is a fine line between the proper use of power and the improper use of power. Corrupting power is quite tempting, particularly if you don't feel that you even have any power in your life. This is why we see "control freaks" and regular everyday people making life a little difficult for