Growing Up Research Paper

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For most girls, growing up is scary especially because of puberty. For me, that was at 10 years old. It is strange being the only girl who needs a bra in 3rd grade. As I grew up, well, they did too. I never really understood how sensual they were until 8th grade. Girls bought push up bras in hopes of having something, while I tried to not show off. That is just the way the world is; there are the girls who love the attention and the girls who get unwanted attention. For me, I have always attracted unwanted attention. I remember the first time I got catcalled I was 14 and in New York, a man at least 25 came up to me and started to look me up and down and then ask questions about me. I simply said that I was 14, and he didn't believe me, so I just walked away, and as I did I heard him say “bitch.” Being 14 and having a 25-year-old man think you are 17-18 felt scary. …show more content…
Throughout the night, my cousin tells me that he keeps starring at me. As I go the outer deck of the boat to take pictures, the man follows without the girl he was dining with. I held the door open for my cousin as she went back inside. The man and I are alone now, and he approaches me, with only one question; “how much for the night?” My heart sank, and all the blood rushed to my face, as I quickly responded “I am only 17.” Then for him to respond “So? How much is it?” For someone to have no disregard for an underage girl shocked me. This was the first time I realized how scary the world can be. He completely disregarded my age and was persistent with this question, as if it was not