All I longed for as a child was to fit in with my peers; to conform, to be like them. Yet, I struggled to feel acceptance in my own “hometown.” During lunch at school, while everyone had a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, I had a Bulgarian cheese sandwich. I did not understand how those birthday invitations worked! I struggled to do my homework without being able to read directions. It was difficult to know who I could trust, so I rarely asked for help. …show more content…
I was essentially living a dual life: I neither wanted to be left out and isolated at school, nor did I want to ignore my family and native culture. Because my parents were facing the same challenge, they could offer me no help. I had to solve this dilemma on my own. I overcame this obstacle by calling up what I considered my inner resources. My well- roundedness, versatility, and confidence were all vital in helping me become the person I am today. I have found a harmonious balance in which I can be both an American and