Personal Narrative: My Transitions In High School

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I can say that my life transitions did not play out as I once expected them to do when I was in my teens. As a teenager, my plans were to graduate high school, pursue a college degree, stabilize within a career, marriage, then finally start a family. That was my planned trajectory, and it was seen as appropriate in the social eye. These roles as a student, worker, wife, and finally a parent were age-graded transitions that were considered as a proper order of life transitions.

As no one can predict the future or how factors such as other peoples’ roles, the economy, or unexpected life events can affect our decisions. My trajectory was not anywhere close to what I envisioned. I can honestly say that the way other people treated me affected some of my roles as a woman. I was bullied tremendously in high school. It took a major toll on me psychologically. I developed low self-esteem and reshaped some of my life choices as to whom I hung out with socially, and at that time what I felt was important. I lost interest in my studies and started hanging out with the “rough crowd.” I went from an excellent student and high school athlete to skipping school, drinking alcohol, and gained interest in the guys that had ill intentions for women.
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As far as my future transitions I try to remain optimistic. Past transitions delayed my ability to get a degree that now has negatively impacted my financial security as I retire. I also think that being a busy, devoted single mom has put a relationship with someone on hold. I really haven’t had any interest in dating. I am excited for the many more life transitions in store for me. I am trying to prepare for them by preventative medical services to try and sustain a healthy life. I seek mental health treatment regularly to stay on top of symptoms. I do expect my oldest son to stay in my home with me longer than society deems normal because of his