My oldest child who is only two right now would not realize the consequences of my actions, and the struggle i put my family in. I understand one day he will become curious and interested about my time in service. If i had to tell the story of my irresponsible ,and unreliable actions my son might lose respect in every thing I've tried to teach him. It may also encourage him to lead his life in the wrong derection. Knowing i didnt succeed will discourage him to try. He might not feel the need to push past my failure examples. Being a father is setting standards for my son that my father faild to do for me. He didn't set such high qualities for my life, but I intend to set high expectations for my son and his future. I want to be my sons hero. The love of a son for me is life’s greatest blessing. I trust in myself to push and leave in good terms so when the time comes to tell my story he is determined on being and doing more then i will have accomplished. I want him to be proud and even feel honored that i am his father. I want my son to say with his head held high my father served in the army and one day i hope i can influance life as my father did for me.
When the time comes every father with a daughter want to be a strong secure man. Mistakes will be held against me. I need my daughter to see me as the man I can be. My wife explained to me that every girls first love is her father and when looking for a man she holds standards for the man she chooses to marry based on the man her father is . I expect my daughters standards to